Social Rules

From DND: 

• Social Interactions with WC (video is from this post < ) 
• Social Renown +Boosts to Checks for PCs - at the bottom of the Tracking page

D&D 5e handles social interaction and romance primarily through roleplay, supported by Charisma-based skill checks (Persuasion, Deception, Intimidation) and Insight to gauge NPC reactions. Romance typically uses the same framework as social interaction, often requiring multiple, staged, or cumulative checks to build relationships over time. 

Core Social Interaction Rules

According to the Dungeon Master’s Guide (DMG), social interaction follows a structure based on NPC attitude: 

• NPC Attitudes: NPCs start as Friendly, Indifferent, or Hostile.
• The Goal: The aim is to move an NPC from Hostile towards Friendly through behavior and dialogue.
• Skill Checks: Charisma checks (DC 10 for moderate requests, DC 20 for difficult ones) are used to change attitudes or achieve goals.
• Roleplaying & Ideals/Bonds/Flaws: Effective roleplay that appeals to an NPC’s ideals, bonds, or flaws can make a check easier or unnecessary.
• Advantage/Disadvantage: If players make a strong, roleplayed argument, the DM can grant advantage. 

Romance Mechanics & Skill Checks

Romance in D&D is often handled by treating NPCs as creatures that need to be impressed or won over, similar to convincing a king to aid in a war. 

• Relationship Tracking: DMs may use a "relationship score" or "impediment level" to track progress, where a certain number of successful scenes or checks are needed to deepen a connection.
• Skill Usage:
  • Charisma (Persuasion): Courting, flirting, or offering kind words.
  • Charisma (Deception): Hiding true intentions or pretending to be someone they are not.
  • Wisdom (Insight): Figuring out what an NPC cares about, their desires, or if they are attracted to the PC.
  • Charisma (Performance): Romantic gestures, such as singing a song or giving a compelling speech.
• Staged Success: Romance is rarely won with one check; it usually requires multiple checks to allow for increasing intimacy (e.g., meeting, dining, falling in love). 

Best Practices for Social/Romance Rules

• NPCs are not Automated: A high roll (like 25-30) does not constitute mind control; an NPC will not act against their core beliefs or safety unless highly favorable (friendly).
• PVP Safety: Generally, social skills (Persuasion/Deception) should not be used against other player characters (PCs) unless the players agree, as this removes player agency.
• Keep it Comfortable: Use "fading to black" for intimate scenes, ensuring the romance remains fun for everyone at the table.
• Roleplay Over Rules: The best social scenes start with roleplay, which then determines if a roll is even needed.